Moving is not easy. Leaving friends. Leaving stores you know. Leaving support mechanisms that it took years to cultivate.
But it was a necessary evil for the kids and I, because we just weren't making it in the craziness of DC suburb life.
So here we are nearly 1-1/2 months into our new home, our new schools, our new routines. Some of the things that are working better in NC than in VA:
- The kids have TOTALLY adjusted beautifully!
- Having the kids' rooms upstairs and mine downstairs creates a sense of (needed) "division" between the adult and the kid world.
- Kids get moving easier in the morning and are dressing themselves.
- I've got the morning routine down to a science and we are able to eat breakfast together.
- I've got lunches and snacks down to a science (thanks to my friend's blog advice on waste-free lunches.
- Homework is getting done in aftercare so I only need to check and review rather than fight the kids to do it when we get home in the evening.
- The weather is nicer - in general - not sure I really understand why - but it is.
- Screened in back porch with alley way for kids to play in allows them to have some extra time at the end of the day outside. Good for everyone.
- No Tues/Thurs meals and kitchen cleaning. (Diane and Daughter I MISS YOU GUYS!!!)
- No good mother's group that I can ask local advice from . (I still rely heavily on my Leesburg/Ashburn group! :)
- No friends to meet up with for a Mom's Night Out.
- Target is 25 minutes away.
- I am still getting hounded with legal petitions from X and have already had to drive up to VA and back twice in the first month of moving down here.
- FIRE ANTS!
- (I think, perhaps, #5 and #6 might be related.)
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